When you are in a new relationship and you have no idea whether he wants to spend Christmas together or not. You don’t know if he’s serious about you and your relationship. Well, don’t worry. Here are 8 obvious signs he wants to spend Christmas with you!
1. He asks if you’re free on Christmas
If your boyfriend doesn’t care about spending Christmas together, he’s not really going to ask if you’re free. But if knowing that you don’t have any plans is really important to him, it is one of the obvious signs he wants to spend Christmas with you.
2. He talks about activities
In new relationship, it’s difficult to tell if you’ll be putting pressure in your boyfriend by wanting to spend the holiday with him. Probably your boyfriend wants to spend Christmas with his family.
It’s better to ask him outright! If you can’t ask him, then one of the obvious signs he wants to spend Christmas with you is that he talks about viewing Christmas tree lighting or going skating, or doing something like that, and he says that he would like to do it with you.
3. He makes plans
Even if your boyfriend doesn’t come out and ask you to spend the Christmas holiday together, he might talk about decorating the tree, going caroling with the family, taking you ice skating, or something like that. And that’s a big sign he wants to spend Christmas with you.
4. He asks about your plans
Probably your boyfriend is shy or unsure and he can’t tell you openly that he’d like to spend Christmas with you. But if he asks about your plans for the holiday, that’s a big sign that he wants you to spend the holiday with him.
5. He asks about dinner
If your boyfriend is asking when you like to eat, what foods you like, that can be one of the most obvious signs he wants to spend Christmas with you. You might tell that it’s a little thing, but believe me, he wouldn’t be asking you if there wasn’t a reason.
6. He tells his parents that he will be with girlfriend
If you happen to hear your boyfriend asking his parents whether it’s okay to come with his girlfriend, and vice versa, he asks you if your parents can set an extra place, it’s an obvious sign he wants to spend Christmas with you.
7. He talks about traditions
If he is talking a lot about Christmas traditions, it might be his way to see whether you want to spend Christmas together or not. Usually boys who don’t care about spending the holiday together don’t talk about how his family always celebrates Christmas Eve.
8. He takes it for granted
One of the biggest signs he wants to spend Christmas with you is if he takes it as a given that you’ll be together. Even if it’s a new relationship, if your boyfriend is really into you, he could take it for granted that you’ll spend Christmas together, whether it’s with his family, your family, or just the two of you.
Often the best way to know if he wants to spend Christmas with you is to ask him outright. Perhaps you know some other signs he wants to spend Christmas together. Share your thoughts, please!