When you communicate with men, you should always keep in mind that they don’t tell you everything they think. I must admit that women are considered to be more talkative and emotional than men.
Sometimes it can be a real problem for some men to express their feelings and emotions. They can’t find appropriate words to tell the woman they like.
However, it is possible to find a man who will easily share all his thoughts with you. But even these communicative guys can’t speak about all the truthful things. Here you will find some of them.
1. You are so beautiful
Certainly, we are melting when men tell us compliments. But some guys can do that perfectly, while others find it really difficult.
I met different boys in my life. Though, only one of them could make me happy with his pleasant words. It’s so important for girls to hear how pretty and beautiful they are.
After that, their self-esteem increases greatly. Sometimes you can be extremely disappointed as you tried hard to do excellent make-up for some special occasion and nobody appreciated your great efforts. In contrast to this, there can be such situations when you don’t pay much attention to your appearance, you get up in the morning, do not do any make-up or hairdo, but still, some men can find lots of ways to tell that you are beautiful.
2. They miss you
I’m sure that if a boy really loves a girl, he will always tell her how much he misses her. No doubt that all the girls become excited about hearing or reading words about that. If your boy can easily say to you, “I miss you,” you are really lucky.
Usually, it costs a lot of effort for men to admit their true feelings. For most of them, that is a matter of their pride. Some boys will never say they miss you as they consider it to be a shame and weakness.
The predominance in the relationship is the most important for them. Such men do everything possible to hide their true emotions.
What should you do if your boyfriend is one of them? Simply take the initiative in your hands, break the ice and say first that you miss him. These tactics work perfectly.
3. They can’t be alone
A lot of women get nervous about being alone when they become older. It will be a big surprise for you, but some men also worry about this issue.
I have never thought about this before as almost all my friends married in their 20’s and didn’t feel any anxiety because of loneliness. Only some time ago, after speaking with my boyfriend, I began to realize that most men are afraid of being alone when they grow older.
We can see that both men and women have the same fears and feelings. The difference is that men won’t always express all their emotions and thoughts.
4. They don’t like your guy-friends
If you go out with your friends among whom there are also guy-friends, don’t expect that your man won’t be jealous. Certainly, he will. Just he is strong enough not to show you all his worries. Besides, when your boyfriend feels jealous of you, that means he has some doubts concerning your love.
You should remember two types of boys: those who can be mad because of their jealousy and those who will never express their real feelings. Perhaps you think your man doesn’t love you enough as whenever you meet with your guy-friends, he doesn’t tell anything and never objects.
Please don’t jump to conclusions; maybe your boy finds it difficult to speak about that subject with you. Be sure; he is always jealous, even without any good reasons.
5. Boy’s nights out are not always great entertainment for them
Whenever our men go out to see their friends and spend a night with them at a club or some bar, we become crazy and jealous. Usually, girls imagine that lots of women will be around their guy and speak all night and flirt with him. Actually, this is the wrong opinion.
In most cases, men go out for boy’s night for relaxing and chatting with their mates. For instance, when my boyfriend comes back after such meetings, he says that he was bad without me and it would be better for him to spend the night out with me in some cozy restaurant. That’s why you should not be angry at your sweetheart when he wants to have a night out with his friends.
6. Concern about the right choice in their life
All people think about their achievements and success they’ve reached some certain age. When we become mature, we begin to analyze what was right and what was wrong and what could be changed. Our dear men are the same.
Their worries and aims are not different from ours. They only don’t often speak about them or don’t speak at all. It happens so that sometimes men need more time to understand what they want in their life and make the right choice. It is necessary for men and women to figure out their life path and follow it until they are 30 years old.
7. You are too emotional when you have PMS
If you have a caring and loving man in your life, he will always understand that involving you in some meaningful conversation during your PMS is not a good idea. It’s not a secret for you how nervous, irritable, and scary you can be these days. But your ideal man will never tell you that.
He will try hard to keep calm and reserved even at such terrible moments when you can cry and shout at him without any reason. We should be proud of our patient men as that is tough work to cope with our monthly moods.
Now you can understand that it can be hard for some men to show their feelings and share their thoughts. You should never make your boyfriend guilty because of that.
He surely loves you very much, and he is quite an emotional guy, just he can’t speak so easily about certain things. In order to know men better, we need some time and experience.
Do you have a boyfriend? Does he often express his feelings and emotions, or does he try to hide them from you?