9. He won’t make a good husband
Turning a player into a husband isn’t an easy task. It involves lots of patience and time. And all the same all your efforts can fail. Furthermore, do you really feel like changing him? They say that you should accept and love a person how she or he is. It’s difficult to accept his games and volatile mood, though.
You’d better spend this time on your personal development; you will benefit from it much more, trust me. But even if you manage to tie the knot, keep in mind that you will always have to control him and be anxious about him. True love manifests trust, understanding, compromise and sincerity. You will never experience these feelings with a player.
Dating a player can be an exciting and unforgettable adventure. Even though I doubt you want to repeat it ever. Along with thrills you will receive constant stresses, sleepless nights and ruined self-esteem. Is it really that you wanted?
A player won’t make a good husband and you will have a marriage with constant problems. You should also think about your future children. Will he make a good father? Will he display reliability and reasonableness? I seriously doubt it.
Dating a player is not a catastrophe at all. Someone finds it amusing while others suffer from constant games with emotions. If you seek for a strong and serious relationship, dating a player isn’t acceptable at all, because it’s a high way to damage your self-esteem and make you suffer from constant heartbreaks. Have you ever dated a player?