Remember your first kiss? I bet it is an experience that stays with you, even to this day. What men fail to realize is just how important the first kiss actually is. From it. Women derive a man’s character from this and determine whether she wants to date him or not from it, as well.
Even after the first kiss, the importance of kissing just right does not wane. Every time you kiss a guy, it needs to be unique and different – something that sets you apart from the other girls. You need to make sure that he will think of you afterwards and long for your next kiss.
Getting it right every single time is no easy task, however. Taking the coward’s way out and just kissing on the cheek does not count; you need to have the full-on passionate kiss every single time and it has to be right. So, needless to say, you need to be a French kisser.
After all, the issue of how to be a good kisser is very crucial when it comes to serious relationships. Have no fear; I am here to help you out in all matters of lip-locking. Read on and you will be getting guys wanting to kiss you day in, day out – instantly!
Rule #1: Combat bad breath
“Whew! Is that your breath?” The importance of this step cannot be underestimated. Who wants to kiss someone whose mouth smells like an open sewer? Freshen up that breath and make sure your lips are moist before you kiss him. Cracked lips and bad breath are a sure way to scare him off that kiss.
I know what you’re thinking, “I already know this!” but you would be surprised at just how many guys and girls out there insist on kissing, even though they have diarrhea breath, mainly because they have no idea they have it. Ask someone you can trust if you do and if they say yes, do something about it. Finally, at all times, carry gum with you. This can be a lifesaving quick fix.
Rule #2: Take time
Do not rush. It is never a wise decision to surprise a guy with a tongue down his throat a second after you start kissing. You need to wait and gauge the mood; does he seem to pull away? Does he kiss you harder? Both of these situations are clear indications of what you should do next.
When you kiss him, just keep things moving at a steady rate. Scaring him will do nothing for you except make him uncomfortable and nervous around you – both of which could lead to him leaving you.
Rule #3: Is he ready?
Are you ready? Is he ready? Kissing a guy before he is ready is actually a bad move. However, some guys can take inordinate amounts of time to get ready. So, the easiest solution to this little problem is probably hypnosis.
This is mainly used by seduction experts that can have guys falling over themselves to kiss you in as little as 15 minutes. Simple and easy to use, it is a growing favorite in both men’s and women’s seduction arsenal, so get out there and try it.
Kissing is can pave the way to a serious relationship, which is why it is critical to know how to kiss correctly. Many men and women walk out of a relationship just because their partners do not know how to kiss well. Follow the rules mentioned above, and you will become a better kisser in a jiff. Are you a good kisser?