You can even don’t know that you close friend or a partner is a bit paranoid. But when you understand it in final, you can do something wrong. Not so many people realize how to behave with this type of person. Of course, it’s really hard, especially when you fall in love with the paranoid guy. He can ruin your relationship you have both built. There are some ways how to deal with them without a lot of unwanted troubles.
1. Control yourself
Try to keep calm and remember that if you lose control too, it will not good for you both. I know, this is extremely hard, but don’t harm your mood. Also you should know, this is only your life and don’t let your nervous friend put you down.
2. Look for the reason
The next step will be a looking for some reasons of this paranoia. Maybe you have done something wrong and lied your partner once. You have already forgotten about this situation, but he or she remembers and still feels some sadness. But if you have never done any bad thing for your partner, the reason can be in her/his past. Maybe some bad girl hurt him and now he thinks each girl is the same. Find out the reason and show him you are not the same. Anyway, this is the first and may be the only thing you can do for her/him.
3. Get some professional help
If you understand your friend has a real paranoia, and nobody knows the reason of it, you need some professional help. This nervous behavior can base on some mental health deviation, and everything you can do is to ask some help from the doctor. Don’t delay this visit, the more you wait the more troubles you attract.
4. Don’t lie
Sometimes people concede the false guilt just because they have already been tired to hear again and again a lot of accusals. Don’t do it, even if you have already been ready for everything to shut up your nervous partner. If you do this you will break the only one chance to change the situation. Your partner will be sure that he or she is absolutely right and you will not convince them.
5. Don’t instigate
If you know that your partner is jealous, first of all you need to correct your behavior. Don’t flirt with anybody if you know that your lover becomes crazy because of it. It will break all that you both have just repaired.
6. You can be free of it
You should remember you don’t need to suffer this always. This is your life, as I said above, you must not try doing something if your partner just doesn’t want to change the situation. If you feel that this is not your fault and you can’t do something, you can leave this relationship. It will be really difficult, but you will be grateful to yourself for this action in the nearest future.
7. The mirror-effect
Sometimes people see in the other the same bad things that they have done. And now they are sure that everybody does it. Remember, maybe they have lied a lot in the past or they can do it now. If you know them not so long, just ask them about it. They need to realize that they are the causers of their nervous behavior.
I hope that my tips will help you to avoid some bad situations with the paranoid person. Remember, that this is only your life and don’t let anybody control it. Finally, you can just stop all quarreling and leave this relationship. So, what can you say? Have you ever been in a relationship with the paranoid partner? How have you gone through all the troubles? Please comment below.