Looking for a new and fun way to spice up your relationship? Ever thought of a lap dance? Nothing arouses a man more like the sight and feel of a woman sensually moving her body on his lap. But I know what you are all thinking: lap dances are only for professionals.
Trust me, you do not have to be an experienced stripper just to give your man a lap dance he will remember for the rest of his life. It is all about learning a few simple lap dance moves and “owning them.”
You still think it is an art best left to professionals. I am going to prove you wrong. Listed below are a few lap dance moves that will intoxicate your man, leaving him to beg for more.
Rules for lap dance moves
Before you look at some of the simple lap dance moves that will captivate your man, it is important to go through a few ground rules:
- You need to prepare a suitable chair that is both comfortable and stable
- Set the mood by putting on smooth and sensual music
- Put on an outfit that makes you look hot and sexy. You do not have to wear crazy heels through the dance. Balance is essential since falling through the dance is not sexy at all
Rule of thumb: your man is only allowed to look and not touch. Without further ado, have a look at the 8 lap dance moves that will leave your guy full of appetite.
1. The Reverse Cowgirl
The move is performed by shaking your butt while moving into a reverse position. Make sure that you are close enough to him. This move will definitely drive him crazy.
2. The Bend over Lean
This is a move guaranteed to drive your man super crazy. Do a sexy lean with the aim of showing off your sexy butt.
Ensure to maintain eye contact when resuming an upright posture.
3. The Sensual Touch
This is a dance that allows you to move to the strains of the music as you slowly touch yourself. You can slowly run your hands through your hair, down your neck, your breasts and around your hips and butt.
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4. The Crawl
Move a few feet away from your man. Bend on your knees with hands touching down. Stick out your derriere while arching your back. Crawl slowly towards him while maintaining eye contact.
5. The 8 Motion
The 8 motion dance entails trying to swing your body as if you are creating the number 8 with your own hips. This move is more effective when you are closer to him.
The music will slowly guide you into pulling it off.
6. The Sexy Lean
This is a great way to start or end the show. Put a proper amount of distance while standing in between the legs of your guy.
Still in this position, allow your body to sensually lean forward. You can use the wall above him or the armchair for support.
You can tease your man even more by inching your breasts closer to his face. What about if you dip your breasts even further by rubbing them on his face or chest? Remember: he is not allowed to touch.
7. The Classic Cowgirl Ride
This is an awesome way of bringing your performance to a boiling point. Maintain eye contact while riding him from the front. You can also ride him from the back.
Do not hesitate about whether it is going to turn out sexy or not; use your imagination and give him a ride of his lifetime.
8. Strip Tease
To close the chapter, try a few seductive moves while removing an item of clothing. You can slowly strip while whispering to his ear what you think would drive crazy.
It wasn’t that hard, was it? Try and learn the simple moves by practicing them a few times. This will give you confidence and help you with “owning” the show.
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